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Radhika Darshetkar (noor)'s avatar

Loud and clear, Maanvi. As it should be. What strikes me is the fact that we find it difficult to acknowledge what's going around, to raise our voices for it, but if the same idea is pushed through as a joke, we start validating those feelings. But what goes wrong here is we don't take the responsibility to make it right. To see it as a challenge to make it right. I really like how you have taken Chugtai's work in relevance here. 'Lihaaf' as a story that holds this mirror in society as opposed to female desire and female sexuality, and its later journey to find a place in society was so unfortunate and concerning. But literature, as you said, so bravely, so brilliantly manages to take the responsibility to change that, and still somehow find a way to reach people. It's urgent. It's powerful. 🌻

But again, if that is going sideways,

"Pass the mic — and the damn rake."

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Radhika Darshetkar (noor)'s avatar

"If after a joke, that conditioning is not challenged but is instead validated, then what’s the point of the joke?"

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